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Understanding Narcissistic Family Systems In Your Life and Our Politics

by Harper West | May 6, 2026 | Trump

This video by Matthew Cooke draws the same comparisons I’ve drawn between family systems of narcissistic abuse and societal levels of authoritarianism such as the Trump/Vance/MAGA regime.  My understanding of narcissism and narcissistic family systems was why I — can...

10 Ways Narcissistic Abuse Affects the Victim

by Harper West | Mar 21, 2024 | Domestic Violence, Narcissist, Relationships

Jaclyn* spent her first two sessions of psychotherapy listing all the ways her husband was difficult to deal with. Some of these sounded like typical complaints in a relationship, such as he spent too much time playing video games and he didn’t help enough with...

Two Types of Estrangement: One is Healthy, One is Not

by Harper West | Dec 15, 2023 | Relationships

Ending a relationship, especially with a family member or close friend, can be difficult for those involved and often confusing for those on the outside of the relationship. What makes it more confusing is that many people don’t realize there are two types of...
Why does he abuse me? Stop asking this question!

Why does he abuse me? Stop asking this question!

by Harper West | Dec 14, 2021 | Domestic Violence, Other-Blamer, Relationships

Janine is divorcing her emotionally abusive narcissistic husband and our weekly therapy sessions are often an exploration of her rollercoaster of conflicting feelings. She is grieving a marriage ending and life not turning out as she had hoped. Naturally, she has...
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