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Narcissistic Opposition to COVID Safety On Full Display

 As expertly deconstructed by blogger Lucian K. Truscott IV, COVID deaths are increasingly segmented into “red states” with high rates of death and low...

How Narcissists Damage Relationships with their Lack of Accountability

  One of my local radio stations has a morning show feature called Dealbreakers, where they have one person call in to complain about a partner and...

Stop Explaining Yourself to a Narcissist

In parenting and relationships I’ve often given this advice: See how few words you can use to talk to the other person. Endless explaining is a power giveaway. If your narcissistic partner is not negotiating in good faith and seeking to understand your position, it really won’t matter how much you explain. Your attempts to make him understand you will never overcome his need to NOT understand you.