Parenting: Dealing with a Teen’s Need to Fit In

Overheard in therapy from a teenager to her parents: “You made me look like the biggest retard ever.” First: Apologies for the socially incorrect statement. But what does this say about teenagers? (Other than that this comment has not changed in the past 4 decades...

James Holmes: Shame Causes Violence

August 1, 2012 After the shooting incident in the Aurora movie theater everyone asks: “Why? How could someone do that? What would make someone go that crazy and hurt and kill so many people?” The pundits jabber and I heard many say essentially, “We...