by Harper West | Dec 26, 2021 | Empathy, Narcissist, Other-Blamer
Many people are aware of the need to set boundaries with others, especially with those who have narcissistic or Other-Blamer traits. Often the focus is on setting limitations on behaviors and words, such as telling your spouse that they cannot swear at you or they...
by Harper West | Aug 24, 2021 | Narcissist, Other-Blamer
If you’ve ever argued with a narcissist you know how maddening it can be. Every logical or factual approach seems to go nowhere and, in fact, seems to make them more angry and defensive. In contrast, explaining your point of view a relationship with an emotionally...
by Harper West | Apr 11, 2021 | Narcissist, Other-Blamer
One of the best ways to break the trauma bond between a narcissist and a victim is for the victim to learn that these selfish, immoral individuals are struggling with their own emotional issues, notably shame intolerance. It can be a powerful shift in the victim to...
by Harper West | Dec 27, 2019 | Narcissist, The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump
Poor Chuck Todd! He’s just coming to realize something some of us realized years ago. He, and most other journalists, have been involved in an abusive relationship with Donald J. Trump and the Trump Party. Todd, a powerful decision-maker in political...
by Harper West | Jul 19, 2019 | The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump
Given Donald Trump’s low poll numbers, many political pundits have wondered: Why does Trump incite racist hatred among his base? This political strategy certainly seems to excite the most ardent followers in the Trump cult, who chant “send her back” at his rallies and...
