by Harper West | May 30, 2018 | Parenting
A new book about parenting styles asks parents: Are you a “carpenter” or a “gardener? And which style is best for raising kids? In her book “The Gardener and the Carpenter,” Alison Gopnik, a psychology and philosophy professor at University of California...
by Harper West | Dec 12, 2017 | Parenting
Heather T. Forbes, LCSW, is an expert on healthy parenting, especially after adoption or trauma, and is author of Beyond Consequences, Logic & Control: Volume 1 & Volume 2, Dare to Love, and Help for Billy. I have shared her articles before, on Love-Based...
by Harper West | Dec 10, 2017 | Parenting
I have blogged about helicopter parenting previously and continue to work with many young children and adolescents who exhibit fearful behavior that is hindering their social, emotional, and intellectual development. I often tell parents that their fears and...
by Harper West | Nov 3, 2017 | Parenting
In the first session of psychotherapy during an assessment, I ask each patient about his or her family of origin, first using a very vague question: “Tell me about who raised you and what your childhood was like.” I use this very broad, open-ended statement purposely....
by Harper West | Oct 28, 2017 | Parenting
Parents want to do the best for their children, so they try to boost “self-esteem” with positive comments. However, in their attempt to help their child avoid negative feelings, parents may actually be helping create insecurity, lack of autonomy, and low self-worth....
by Harper West | Oct 25, 2017 | Parenting
When I am beginning therapy with a family, the first thing I do is re-educate parents on a few things. So, I will also start here by debunking three myths before I get to my Ten Tips for Parents to Improve a Child’s Emotional Wellbeing. Myth Debunker #1:...
